xstate improvement proposal (react patterns)

see the gist here: https://gist.github.com/alita-moore/970c9d5e7f167b0db74de48bb5cc6a45

in short, I suggest adding these two utilities as core xstate react patterns. They make working with xstate in react much easier in my experience.

p.s. love xstate, probably my favorite library. it's inspired a lot of my internal tooling / patterns in one form or another.