[ENH] Cleanup, lint, and sync requirements

Chroma has several places where we manage python dependencies / requirements

At the top level of the project:

• pyproject.toml: https://github.com/chroma-core/chroma/blob/main/pyproject.toml
• requirements.txt: https://github.com/chroma-core/chroma/blob/main/requirements.txt
• requirements_dev.txt: https://github.com/chroma-core/chroma/blob/main/requirements_dev.txt

For the thin python client:

• pyproject.toml: https://github.com/chroma-core/chroma/blob/main/clients/python/pyproject.toml
• requirements.txt: https://github.com/chroma-core/chroma/blob/main/clients/python/requirements.txt
• requirements_dev.txt: https://github.com/chroma-core/chroma/blob/main/clients/python/requirements_dev.txt

A similar situation exists for the TypeScript client.

It's easy to miss adjusting these, for example when we need to pin or update a dependency as in https://github.com/chroma-core/chroma/pull/2360

We should unify these as much as possible, and add lint rules when they absolutely must be redundant.